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To My Mighty Girl With Love:
40 Books About Parents, Grandparents, & Siblings

Posted on February 7, 2017 by Katherine

Our favorite Mighty Girl stories about the love between girls and their parents, grandparents, and siblings -- perfect for sharing on Valentine's Day and all year round!

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With Valentine’s Day around the corner, it’s a great time to talk to your Mighty Girl about love — not just romantic love, but the many other kinds of love she’ll encounter in her life. After all, while your Mighty Girl may be years away from experiencing romantic love, she’s sure to have family who love her!

With that in mind, we've pulled together a selection of girl-empowering books about the love between girls and their parents, grandparents, and siblings to share with your Mighty Girl this Valentine’s Day — and all year round.  There’s no better way to remind her how many people are there to support her, on Valentine’s Day and throughout her life!

Of course, there’s lots of love outside families as well. To talk to your Mighty Girl about the love between friends, you can find many of our favorite books in our blog post Making and Keeping Friends: Mighty Girl Books about Friendship. And, for books for tweens and teens about romantic love, check out our blog post 20 Mighty Girl Books for Tweens & Teens About Healthy Relationships.

No Matter What: Book About A Parent's Love

Whether your Mighty Girl was born into your family or you found one another through adoption, the love of a parent is a powerful presence in her life. These books will teach her the strength of that love, and how, no matter what happens, it will be there to support her.

Baby Dance

Who would have thought that a nineteenth century poem would make such a beautiful board book for modern babies? When Mama falls asleep on the couch, it's Dad's turn for special time with his baby as they swing, lift, and dance their way around the house. Colorful illustrations complement the playful text and make this book the perfect prelude to a baby dance of your own.

I Will Love You Forever

"When I saw you for the very first time, I was filled with joy that you were mine." In this heartwarming book, Caroline Jayne Church's rhyming text and colorful illustrations provide a warm, tender look at the love between parent and child. The repeated refrain, "I knew I would love you forever," reminds the littlest reader that, no matter where they go, they are cherished and loved.

The I LOVE YOU Book

Even toddlers can learn about unconditional love with this simple, cheerful picture book. Whether the kids in this book are brave or scared, happy or sad, cuddled up close or miles away, their parents love them. Parr's distinctive colorful illustrations are appealing to even the youngest children, who will love hearing the message “I love you just the way you are” over and over again.

How Do I Love You?

How do you tell a Mighty Girl how much you love her? Sometimes it’s hard to find the words, especially for the youngest girls. This sweet book answers the question in simple but deep metaphor — as a bee loves a flower, as a bear loves the spring, as the moon loves every star. Paired with Charlotte Church’s collage illustrations, it’s a lovely way to convey the depth and breadth of a parent’s love.

Mommy Hugs

Count and play through a busy day with this Mighty Girl and her loving mom! Each activity, from waking up to eating breakfast to playing at the park, involves a different sort of hug — but every one of them lets her know that Mommy loves her to pieces. Katz's distinctive bright, patterned illustrations are always a hit with young kids, and they'll soon be asking for their own special hug.

The Big Big Sea

A mother and daughter's walk by the ocean becomes a memory she'll never forget in this dreamy story. Beginning with the excitement of being up late, and continuing as the exuberant girl splashes and dashes around the empty beach, this book follows the pair through an ordinary night that becomes extra special. The night, of course, ends where any parent would guess: with a sound sleep on Mama's lap.

Nelly Gnu and Daddy Too

One of the best way to show the love between a parent and a child is to do things together! In this charming story, Nelly has a big day planned, full of drawing, reading, building and playing — but everything's better if Daddy joins in. This lovely depiction of special time between a father and a daughter shows off the pleasures of an involved father-daughter relationship.

Ask Me

As they go for a walk through their neighborhood, a patient father encourages his daughter to ask him all of the questions she is brimming with as they explore the world. This wise dad knows that there’s much beauty and love to share in this idle walk and rambling talk. And with each new sight prompting another train of thought comes something else: the confidence and joy that comes from knowing that your father is really listening. This poetic and gentle picture book is sure to prompt your own sessions of “ask me.”

Wherever You Are, My Love Will Find You

Nancy Tillman’s books, with their poetic text and dreamy illustrations, do a beautiful job of conveying the power and presence of a parent’s love. In this book, a parent’s love follows a little girl through fanciful adventures with wild animals around the world and then home to where she lies, tucked safely into bed. The reassurance that your love is always with her is just the thing to give your Mighty Girl confidence in her own adventures.

I Love You Like Crazy Cakes

If your Mighty Girl is adopted, she may wonder: did the way you met change the way you love her? Through the course of this story, an adoptive mother falls in love with her daughter — first from a distance, when officials send her a picture of her future child, and then in person when they finally meet. With vivid, joyful illustrations of a deeply loving adoptive mother and child, this book is a celebration of the fact that family is about so much more than genetics.

Owl Moon

A day doesn't have to be busy to offer a special moment. A quiet walk together on a winter's night offers a beautiful moment of connection between a father and a daughter in this Caldecott Medal-winning book. As Pa softly calls the owl the pair are hoping to see, he also introduces his little girl to the joys of a moonlight night in good company. This poetic, contemplative picture book captures how simple pleasures -- like the treat of being up “long past my bedtime” -- become treasured moments with a parent.

Koala Lou

Perhaps the most important thing your Mighty Girl needs to know about a parent’s love is that it doesn’t change, no matter what. Koala Lou doesn’t know what to do when her mother forgets to say how much she loves her. Does a bigger, busier family mean her mom loves Koala Lou less? Koala Lou’s solution — entering the Bush Olympics, hoping a win will attract her mother’s attention — doesn’t quite have the result she hoped, but she does get the reassurance she needs that Mom’s love never fades.

Because Your Daddy Loves You

A parent’s love can turn a bad day into a good one. A series of minor dramas — from a bad dream to dripping ice cream — threaten to spoil a little girl’s day in this story. Fortunately, her loving and patient father is there to help her solve every problem! It’s a lovely reminder that a parent’s love can help you get through every crisis in your life, whether big or small.

My Mama Had A Dancing Heart

Special times with a parent can even become a life's purpose! This little girl and her mother welcome each new season with a special dance, which celebrates the unique environment that results from the progression of time. Years later, that little girl has grown up into a ballerina whose dancing heart comes from her mother and who continues to take great joy from every step. This heartfelt story of how a mother's joy can become a daughter's passion is sure to touch both children and adults.

Ramona and Her Mother

Mrs. Quimby has gone back to work, and to Ramona, it feels like their world is upside down. Without her mother at home, Ramona is too little to stay at home by herself, but too old to avoid being told to watch annoying Willa Jean. And every time she does something wrong, Ramona wonders if she still holds a place in her mother's heart. Fortunately, when she finally admits her fears, her mother is there to reassure her that she will always be loved. Ramona captures the tangled and uncertain feelings of school-aged kids perfectly. Fans of Ramona should also check out Ramona and Her Father, in which Ramona's dad reassures her that, even with tight times after a job loss, he wouldn't trade her for a million dollars.

Bo At Ballard Creek

A loving family can come in all shapes and sizes, and parenting can take many forms. Tough gold miners Arvid and Jack are astonished to find themselves falling in love with an abandoned baby girl, but soon they've become adoring fathers to the child. As she gets older, the exuberant Bo becomes a joyful addition not just to Arvid and Jack's life, but also to the lives of everyone in her community. This charming story is an excellent reminder that family is what you make of it.

It's Not The End Of The World

For Mighty Girls whose lives are being rocked by a big change like a separation or a divorce, it's particularly critical to know that their parents will always love them. In this story, Karen refuses to believe that her parents' marriage is over, even as her father plans a divorce in Las Vegas and her mother alternates between being shocked and pleased. Although a friend with divorced parents insists there's nothing Karen can do, she's determined to try. Instead, Karen learns that just because parents are no longer together doesn't mean that they love their children any less.

One For The Murphys

A foster child, especially one who’s older, may feel torn between two families — can she love both, and can they both love her? In this book, Carley has spent years building emotional walls to protect herself, especially after she ends up in the foster care system. Her foster family, the Murphys, seems, well, perfect — how could they love flawed Carley? And when her mother asks Carley to come home, can Carley believe her mother could love her and admit that she loves her mother back? This complex story about love, hope, and family is sure to touch young readers.

For more books that celebrate the love between parents and children, check out our blog posts: Celebrating Mighty Moms and Their Daughters and A Father's Love: A Mighty Girl Celebrates Father's Day.

Across The Generations: Books About Grandparents

Grandparents can also provide a special love to the Mighty Girls in their lives: an adult so like her parents yet so different, and whose life is full of fascinating experiences, is a precious thing to many girls. Unsurprisingly, there are plenty of Mighty Girl books that celebrate this relationship as well!

Our Granny

In this story, two children start thinking about what makes their Granny special. After all, grannies are just as different as any other two people: some are tall, some are short, some are quiet, some are loud. Their granny is busy, funny, and has her own inimitable sense of style, including her love for an old red sweater that used to be Grandpa’s. In the end, these grandchildren decide that their Granny is perfect just as she is, especially when she’s giving them a special kiss goodnight.

Abuela

Grandparents can open a new world of experiences up to their grandchildren. This little girl's bus ride with Abuela turns into a magical flight across New York City, watching the streets, docks, attractions, and even her father’s office. As they travel, Abuela teaches Rosalba Spanish words for the things they see, bridging the divide between Rosalba’s world and Abuela’s. This beautiful story with just a touch of fantasy is a lovely testament to the love of a grandparent.

The Bee Tree

This grandfather’s way of life provides a useful lesson for his granddaughter. Mary Ellen is bored with practicing reading, and wants to run and play outside. So Grandpa leads her on a crazy chase to find a bee tree — one that sweeps up half the town! The delicious honey is worth the chase, and Grandpa reminds Mary Ellen that the treasures within books are just as wonderful and just as worthy of pursuit. This charming story will remind your children that grandparents have a lot of wisdom to offer, as well as love.

When Grandmama Sings

A grandparent can inspire a Mighty Girl and help her seek a better future. Growing up in the 1940s, Belle has the opportunity of a lifetime: a summer following Grandmama Coles as she tours the South with a swing jazz band. But segregation is everywhere, even when people just want to hear some great music. But Belle knows the power of Grandmama's voice — not just to entertain, but to bring people together — and she knows that one day, people will sing and listen together.

Hana Hashimoto, Sixth Violin

Even if separated by thousands of miles, a beloved grandparent can help a Mighty Girl explore new interests. Hana was inspired by Ojiichan's beautiful violin playing on a family trip to Japan, so she decides to take up the violin. Now, she wants to perform in the talent show even though she's only had a few lessons! Her brothers are sure it will be a disaster, but Hana just remembers Ojiichan's dedication to daily practice. And when she faces that intimidating audience for the first time, Ojiichan gives her the strength to perform her best, even if he's not at her side.

The Matchbox Diary

A grandparent or great-grandparent can also provide a unique connection to family history. When a little girl visits her immigrant great-grandfather in his home stuffed with mysterious treasures, he invites her to ask about any one item. The object she picks, a cigar box full of matchboxes, turns out to be a life in unexpected mementos, everything from the olive pit he sucked as a starving child in Italy to a ticket stub from his first American baseball game. This story, told entirely in dialogue, beautifully captures the special memories an older relative can share.

Love, Ruby Lavender

When a beloved grandparent is at a distance, a Mighty Girl might wonder if the relationship can stay strong. When Ruby’s grandmother goes to visit a new grandchild thousands of miles away, Ruby wonders how she will manage a summer without her. The summer ends up being a busy one: Ruby makes new friends, helps with a school play, and finally wrestles with her grief over her grandfather’s death. All the while, letters between Ruby and her grandmother fly back and forth, keeping them close until they’re finally reunited.

The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate

Sometimes a shared interest reveals a new side of a previously distant grandparent. In this Newbery Honor book, Calpurnia’s fascination with nature catches the attention of her grandfather, an avid naturalist. Even though he considers a girl interested in evolution an oddity in the book’s 1899 setting, the pair bond over a mutual love of observation, and when they discover an unknown species together, Calpurnia’s grandfather lobbies to have it recognized. Although Calpurnia learns she will face many obstacles to pursue her love of science, this special relationship with her grandfather is a new joy for her to treasure. Fans of Calpurnia will also want to check out the sequel, The Curious World of Calpurnia Tate.

For more stories about Mighty Girls and their loving grandmothers and grandfathers, check out our blog post, Mighty Girls and their Grandparents: Love Through the Generations.

Born To Be Friends: Books About Siblings

Even if your Mighty Girl might sometimes dream of being an only child, the truth is that most girls, secretly or overtly, adore their older or younger siblings. But that doesn’t mean the relationship is simple or always adoring! These books celebrate the deep, abiding love a sister has for the other children in her family, while still acknowledging the inevitable ups and downs between siblings.

Lola Reads To Leo

The book-loving little girl from Lola At The Library is a big sister now, and she's discovering how her stories can become part of a rapidly growing family. Despite the hustle and bustle of life with a baby, the family always makes special time for reading, and Lola is proud to be able to share her love of reading with her new little brother — something your own Mighty Girl may delight in doing with her younger siblings.

I Am A Big Sister

Becoming a big sister is a big transition, but it comes with a newfound feeling of independence and responsibility. This book is the perfect way for big sisters — or soon-to-be big sisters — to celebrate their new role in the family. Even toddlers can be a big help to their parents by bringing things the baby needs, singing to the baby, and even remembering to be quiet when the baby sleeps. This sweet story is a great way to start a sibling relationship off right.

Best-Ever Big Sister

Little Mighty Girls with brand new siblings will love this lift-the-flap book that shows them what life is like as a new big sister. While Katz shares the joys and delights of a new baby, she also reminds the new big sister of all the amazing things she does — after all, the baby can’t use a fork, a bike, or a big-girl bed! The new big sister, though, reassures her baby sibling: “one day you’ll be big like me.”

Chloe, Instead

For some kids, siblings sometimes seem like more of a pain that a delight! Molly’s dream of having a sister just like her fell apart when Chloe turned out to be totally different from her. In fact, sometimes Chloe seems like she’s just in the way. But eventually Molly realizes that having a sister who’s different is just as good. After all, it’s hard for two girls to play piano at the same time, but it’s great fun when one dances to the other’s beat! A funny glimpse at sibling life, this book is sure to be a favorite.

Clara and Davie

Sometimes a sibling is the only one who can show you your own worth. Clara loves animals and nature, but wrestles with a lisp that makes it hard for her to be understood. Her kindly big brother Davie tells her, “Some day you are going to be a very great lady,” and reminds her that she has a tremendous talent for healing. And when Clara is able to nurse her beloved brother back to health, she starts on a path that will lead to great things! Based on the real story of Clara Barton, founder of the American Red Cross, this story captures how a sibling’s love can support you through anything.

Maple

Sisters can bond over shared pleasures, even when one of them is still tiny. Maple has always adored her special maple tree, the one her parents planted before she was born, but it's not the same as a real friend. One day, a new sprout appears in the garden — right before her parents announce that she'll have a baby sister soon. Baby Willow doesn't immediately seem to be an ideal playmate, but when Maple introduces her to the great outdoors and her special tree, it's obvious the two sisters will be fast friends. The sisters' story continues in the sequel, Maple and Willow Together.

Wolfie the Bunny

The whole Bunny family is thrilled by their newly adopted baby — except for Dot, who's exasperated that nobody else sees the danger of bringing a wolf cub home, even if he is wearing a bunny sleeper! "He's going to eat us all up!" she cries. Perhaps even worse, he begins to tag along wherever she goes. But when Wolfie is threatened, Dot realizes that, wolf or no, she loves her little brother and will protect him from anything. A whimsical story of adoption and sibling love, kids will giggle at this unique take on the new-baby story.

Louise Loves Art

When a sibling accidentally makes a mess of something, it can help to remember that they're often trying to imitate someone they admire. In this fun story, Louise loves both art — painting and drawing — and Art — her younger brother. Louise has been working hard on something extra special, her masterpiece. But when Art tries to add his own touches, will Louise appreciate his artistic spirit? This charming story captures the ups and downs of a loving sibling relationship.

Virginia Wolf

When you don't even know yourself any more, a sister may be able to help. Vanessa discovers her sister has woken up in a wolfish mood, growling, snarling, and hiding in the dark. As Vanessa tries to cheer her sister up, Virginia tells her that no place will make her happy except a mythical perfect place called Bloomsberry. So Vanessa picks up her paintbrush and begins transforming their room into Bloomsberry, and soon Virginia is back to her regular self again. Based on the story of author Virginia Woolf and her painter sister Vanessa, this lovely story shows how the power of a sister’s love shines through even the darkest days.

A Nearer Moon

Once, Luna's village was beside a beautiful flowing river, but ever since the dam was built it's been a grim, cursed swamp. Granny Tu mourns the loss of the river's sprites and fairies, but Luna doesn't believe in those stories; she only believes in the things she can see and hear. But when her beloved sister falls in the swamp and becomes desperately ill, doomed to die just like their father did years ago, Luna refuses to accept her sister's fate. To save her beloved sister, she'll do anything... even believe in magic. Tweens will devour this magical story of sisterly love.

The Penderwicks: A Summer Tale of Four SIsters, Two Rabbits, and a Very Interesting Boy

Sometimes your siblings are your partners in adventure! The four Penderwick sisters have a holiday estate to explore together this summer — complete with acres of gardens, tame rabbits, and a new companion that the Penderwicks need to rescue from a terribly boring future. The summer is full of ups and downs, but no matter what happens, each of the Penderwick girls knows her sisters will be there to defend her or encourage her on to greater deeds!

Magic in the Mix

In this sequel to the popular book The Magic Half, Molly and Miri Gill are sisters... sort of. Only the two of them know that Molly used to live with an abusive family in 1935, before Miri's magical home opened a gateway that offered a better life for Molly. Molly's still not sure that she deserves this unexpected change for the better, but when the home's magic is triggered again — this time leading to the Civil War — Miri and Molly will have to work together to make things right and reassure Molly that she is exactly where she belongs.

The Two Princesses of Bamarre

A sister’s need may be the inspiration for a great adventure! Meryl has always been the daring, adventurous princess, while her sister Addie has been happy to stay safe and comfortable in the castle. But when Meryl is struck by the Gray Death plague, it’s up to Addie to fulfill a prophecy and find a cure for her sister. The timid, anxious girl will have to face dragons, unknown magic, and even death itself if she wants to save the kingdom — and her sister.

Sisters

Even if sisters NEVER get along, a crisis will tease out how much they really love one another. In Telgemeier's autobiographical graphic novel, Raina dreamed of a little sister for years, but Amara turns out to be cranky, solitary child instead of the devoted playmate Raina was hoping for. The years don't improve their relationship, and time isn't kind to the family, as their father loses his job and their parents' relationship starts to struggle. But on a long summer road trip, Raina and Amara find themselves alone together for hours — long enough to recognize that, no matter what their differences, sisters are always there for one another.

Kira-Kira

A sibling’s love can sustain you even when that sibling is gone. Katie Takeshima’s sister Lynn is the one who lets her know everything will be all right, even when the family has to move to a town in the Deep South where Japanese families are so rare that people stop in the street to stare. Lynn sees everything as kira-kira — glittering or shining — and gives Katie hope that things will be better. But when Lynn is diagnosed with lymphoma, can Katie still believe in kira-kira? A touching story of how a sister brightens a lifetime’s worth of moments, this Newbery Medal-winning novel will remind your Mighty Girl that love extends beyond time and space.

For more books about the complex, crazy, and adoring relationships between Mighty Girls and their sisters and brothers, visit our Siblings Collection.

So this Valentine’s Day, remind your Mighty Girl just how many people love her — and how much joy her own love gives them — both on special days and on every day of the year. There’s no better way to let her know how special love is!

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